Advice from someone who knows.
“1. a feature that mars the perfection of something; defect; fault: beauty without flaw; the flaws in our plan”
Imperfection is perfection.
You have hairy toes
You weigh ten to twenty pounds more than what you’d really like to
You bite your nails when you get nervous
You giggle at inappropriate moments
And, you always forget at least one thing when you go grocery shopping.
Guess what, you’re perfect!!!
You are the perfect imperfect version of yourself.
You, are you!
And you should be grateful for that.
Because their is no one out their that is quite as unique and as special as you are.
If you are lucky, you will know this, completely and whole heartedly.
But, if you don’t know this, you may have some things you want to change about yourself.
You want to be ‘that’ person you see in your mind’s eye.
If it means that much to you, do it.
Time is ticking. Life is short. Do what you want to do. Be who you want to be.
CAUTION: Often, we change our habits and lifestyles, ourselves and everything about us to impress others.
Changing things about yourself, for yourself can empower you if they are your genuine beliefs.
Changing things about yourself, for others, does not bode well for your future.
Because eventually, you will find a wall.
You will hit this wall.
And realise that deep down, you are still the same person as before.
Learn to accept yourself.
Learn to be proud of yourself, of everything you have been through and everything you have achieved. Even the little things. They matter too.
All the little things about you, they matter.
Believe in yourself.
I believe in you
Love to all
“You gotta speak up, you gotta shout out, talk a bit louder, be a bit prouder
and know that right here, right now,
You can be beautiful, wonderful, anything you want to be”